Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Daddy, Mommy, Sophia, and Baby-to-be: an update on our crazy life!

It's been awhile since I've caught up on my blogs.  Typical Sitarski's - we prefer to do everything all at once just to make our lives a little bit more interesting.

First let's start with my wonderful husband.  He's been at Brightstar for a year now and is doing great. He got some time on the motorcycle this summer and fall which makes him so happy.  I'm secretly a little happy it's stored away for the winter (one less thing to worry about).  Our 2nd anniversary was the beginning of December and we had the chance to get away for a weekend in Galena to celebrate.  We were able to catch up on sleep and walk around without a stroller or diaper bag.

Our little Sophia - she is just the craziest sweetest little monkey!  She's almost 15 months - running around like crazy.  She loves to smile and play and never stops moving. NEVER STOPS MOVING.  I picked her up from daycare yesterday and she hugged one of her little friends and then stole a cape from her.  Enough said.

I'm currently in grad school for my MBA in Organizational Behavior.  I've always wanted to get my MBA, when I was single and had all the time in the world I had zero desire to do so.  But after getting a severance letter last year it made me realize that no job is forever and just because I've been loyal to a company for nearly 13 years doesn't mean much in this market.  So I guess now is the time I will choose to do this.  I've completed 2 classes so far and have 14 to go (Lord help me).  So far the classes have been good but way more work outside of class than I thought.  I have no idea why I would think an MBA wouldn't be a lot of studying but I don't really think I was prepared to take this on.  Bart is so supportive!  He loves his daddy/daughter days when I'm at class.  I absolutely could not do this without his support.  Only about 2 years left hunny!

Our newest news is that we are currently expecting baby number 2!  So far this pregnancy has some similarities and differences to Sophia.  We are extremely lucky and got pregnant right away just like last time.  The first 10ish weeks were actually pretty easy other than being tired and SUPER moody (sorry babe).  Being pregnant with your first you can nap all the time, being pregnant with a toddler running around means no napping for mama - just a lot of running on empty.  I'm also showing way earlier in this pregnancy.  I just had Sophia a year before I got pregnant (almost to the day) and I nursed for a year so my body wasn't in top shape this time.  With Sophia I started really showing at like 19 weeks, this time it was more like 9 weeks.  By 10 weeks I was in full on maternity clothes and hoping to hide it for a few more weeks.  We will find out the sex of the baby at 20 weeks, I can't wait!  Part of me thinks a girl will be easier because everything in our house is already pink.  The other part of me would like to experience having a boy too.  Only 6 more weeks until we find out :-).

Around 10.5 weeks we started having a similar experience to Sophia's.  The spotting and cramping and bleeding were all too famaliar!  Both times we went in we were able to find a heartbeat right away and our midwife was super sweet and get the ultrasound so we could get a view of the bambino.  It was a stressful two weeks but at our appointment at 13.5 weeks our midwife ran any test she could and found there was no medical reason to worry.  Stuff happens that you can't avoid and we chose not to do genetic testing, there is always the possibility something could go wrong but today there is no reason to worry.  So what caused the bleeding both times?  It is called a subchoronic bleed.  It happens in 3% of pregnancies.  It's basically like a blood blister that forms in your uterus.  They typically do not cause a miscarriage.  When asking my midwife about her experience, she said she typically sees them in 2nd pregnancies and she has never seen the same mom have it in multiple pregnancies.  Leave it to me to be just a little different!

Well there is an update on our wild and crazy life!  1.3 kids, 2 years of marriage. 2 full time jobs, one MBA and 2 people who are trying to balance it all and have a little fun too!









Saturday, October 3, 2015

Sophia's Twinkle Twinkle Little Star 1st Bday Party

Sophia's 1st Birthday party was a huge success! 
  • Theme: Twinkle Twinkle Little Star
  • Colors: Pink and Gold
  • Time: 11-2 (in between nap times)
  • Location: Our house on Euclid
  • Food: Brunch (biscuits and gravy, donuts, fruit and yogurt)
  • Attendees: Nana and Papa, G&G Sitarski and tons of wonderful friends!


 Our little family

 I can't just throw a party, I have to theme it to death.  I made this fringe out of $1 table cloths.  It saved so much money but it was such a pain in the booty!  But I LOVED the end result!




Yes Sophia is a 1st child - we did a great job at the monthly picture and I LOVED this banner showcasing how much she's grown.

 The kids loved the playroom (good place to keep them contained)

 Sophia got way too spoiled with toys, books and clothes!  It was so funny when she opened this box it was so big she threw her hands on her head.  SOOOO ADORABLE!

 Not a fan of cake - like mother like daughter!


Sophia with her Godmother Anna.  These two have such a sweet special bond!

Thank you to everyone for celebrating this little munchin's first birthday!

Saturday, September 19, 2015

A letter to my daughter on her 1st birthday

Two weeks from Monday my sweet little Sophia will be one year old.  Tonight, I went through the plans for her party, made a list of the "To Do's" and started to get things organized.  And then I sat down and thought about it and decided to write my darling daughter a letter for her birthday.

My sweet Sophia,
     Let me start out by saying that you are the best thing that has ever happened to me and daddy.  This is something I tell you every single night as I feed you and sing you "You Are My Sunshine" and before I lay you down to sleep.
     I remember the day you were born.  I think about that day often.  I think about how lucky we are that you were so strong and fought for your life.  I think about how lucky we are that great doctors took really good care of both of us so that we could be here to torture daddy as much as we love to do.  I remember the day I had to leave the hospital and go home without you.  You were safe and in great hands with the NICU nurses, but mommy's heart broke a million times that night.  Every night you were in the hospital, mommy called the nurses to check and see how you were doing.
     When we finally got to bring you home, mommy and daddy would fight over who got to hold you.  You were quite a pistol in the beginning.  You had a lot to say, so much to say that you never wanted to sleep.  In the late nights and early mornings, we got to know each other pretty well.  We used to thank God that you were so cute, it made all the tears easier to take.
     After all the crying you became a pretty happy and smiley baby.  I used to wonder if you smiled so much because every time you looked at mommy or daddy we were smiling at you.  You've always been a strong, strong willed, funny, adorable, bald little baby girl.  I love getting you see you learn new things and getting to be the one to teach you those things.  I love when you look at a toy and suddenly figure out how it works.  I love when you are so proud and look at me with an ear to ear smile showing me what you just accomplished.
     I never knew what was missing in my life until I had you.  The joy you bring to my life is something I could have never imagined.  I never knew I could love something so much that my heart physically hurts when I look at you.  I never knew I could be so anxious and paranoid and worried about a 19lb 11oz little human being.
    I can't wait for every single day.  I love seeing you when you wake up in the morning.  I love your hugs and your kisses.  Thank you for changing my life forever.  Thank you for letting me be your mommy.

Sunday, June 28, 2015

Sophia's Baptism

The weekend of Sophia's baptism was extra special with all the family around.  My Mom & Joe and aunts, uncles and grandparents all came up early to spend some extra time together.  Josh, Alice, my niece Edith and nephew Charlie (Boogie) flew in Saturday morning.  It was so fun having the cousins together!  Sophia is obsessed with Charlie and fascinated with sweet Edith. 




The day of the baptism was a such a beautiful day.  My little peanut looked so cute in her headband made by my sister in law's sister, Aggie.  She is one lucky lady to be surrounded by so many people who love her. 

 But Mom I was napping and now you want me to look cute, life is hard sometimes.

 "you're going to do what?"  


 This Deacon was seriously wonderful!  He was funny and sweet and explained every part of the ceremony.  We couldn't have picked a better church!

 Sophia has the best god parents - mommy's big brother, Josh and daddy's cousin, Anna.


 At the church

 With Sophia's Habel Grandparents at the church

All of the grandparents at the church


Some of the decorations

We had a good friend come and take photos of us after the baptism.  I love the pics we got - thank you Katy!!

 Our little family.
That quilt is special to me, my Mom received that from my great-grandmother as a bridal shower present.  I remember when Josh and I were small we used to fight over who got to sit on it.  Thanks Mom for passing it along so Sophia can play on it now.


 Anna has always been a special part of Bart and I's relationship.  Anna is the closest thing Bart's had to a sister.  Anna accepted me into the family right away and we've always had a special bond.  Anna read a poem during our wedding ceremony and now is a major part of our Sophie's life.  When we were thinking of who we wanted as Sophia's godmother - we wanted someone who would always be there for her, who she could trust and go to with anything.  I hope if there is ever anything Sophia doesn't feel comfortable coming to me with, she will go to Anna.

 THIS IS MY FAVORITE PICTURE IN THE WHOLE BUNCH!
She's like hmmm.... you look like my mom but different and I like you a lot but I don't know you - how confusing.

 My big brother has always been there for me.  Because of this, I know he will be the best godfather for Sophia.  My brother is also one of the best dad's I know so the godfather role will come extra natural.  Josh walked me down the aisle at our wedding - he was my rock that day and I sure hope if Sophia ever needs it, Josh can be her rock one day too. 

 Sophia with her Nana and Papa - the bond between these three is something only they can explain.

 How cool - Josh and my families together.

 Great Grandma Rosie and Great Grandpa Gordy

 Thank you all so much for coming for the weekend - this is one amazing family we are so blessed to be a part of!

 I may be biased, but Mom - you did pretty damn good!

 Nana and Papa with their grandkids.

 Great Grandparents with the grandkids!

 Woah - one where everyone is looking at the camera :-)
Bart's parents looked FANTASTIC!!  

 With the Sitarski / Scott clan.  Sophia sure is one loved little lady!

 With her cousins - man those kids clean up well!

 My angel.  Sophia you are the best thing that has ever happened to Mommy and Daddy!  We are so proud of you every single day and love you more than I can ever explain through the words on this page.  I can't wait to spend the rest of my life showing you how much I love you every single day.

 Mom/Joe and Bart's Parents

Four generations!
Someday Sophia will learn how much strength and independence is in this picture!

A sincere thank you to all who traveled and joined in Sophia's special day!